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By debbiesdailyviews

just so ya know it's me
just so ya know it's me

After enjoying looking at fellow hubber's pages. I felt inspired to write this piece.

I have just joined a very interesting writer, and one of her hubs is on friendship's, and finding out who, or who isn't fake, and so on.

My comment on her page was regarding this topic.

What I say about this is as follows, albeit not word for word, but hope you get my drift.

I am an Absolutely Top-Notch Mate ! I know I am without any shadow of doubt.

And If you beg to differ, well that would mean you have at sometime offended me, and I have turned my back on you.

Now this may sound Harsh, but please let me explain.

I work on a 3 strikes and your out, which I will expand on further in a moment.

When I eventually do, and have many times turned my back on a so called friend.

I did that without regret, for carrying on with that person, ( I say that, as opposed to this, for at that point they are allready behind me ) they would have used up the 3 strikes I make them aware of.

Also at this point, I would like to add, they once agreed to my strikes, and said they felt the same way !

Now I am laughing out loud, I can see you are thinking I sound quite bitter hahaha

On the Contrary, I feel fortunate for myself, and also for passing my " VIEW " on to you.

OK so here's where I make more sence.

I work on the old wives tale that is...

The 1st time someone does something to hurt you, Call it an Accident.

The 2nd time, you can call it a Mistake.

The 3rd time Call it a lifestyle, ( on their part )

So you see, if you have got as far as considering no-3, you would be a fool to let anyone treat you so badly.

Also, this still make you a good person, as you have allready let someone offend you twice, and your good nature gave them ample benefit of doubt.

Which makes you a true Top-Notch Mate !!!

Comments

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DjBryle 19 months ago

Hey, this sounds familiar! lol! Thanks for sharing this thought on friendship! I agree, giving one 3 chances to be a good friend is being good to the other, but more than 3 makes you a fool. Voted up for a very insightful hub! See you around! =)

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pollyprescription 19 months ago

Good people deserve the best (:

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debbiesdailyviews Hub Author 19 months ago

Thank you so much for your comments, and your time.

And thanx for the company. x

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ichoosehim 18 months ago

3 strikes and you're out. Good idea. I'm going to suggest this system to my daughter.

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debbiesdailyviews Hub Author 18 months ago

It really works ichoosehim, with all relationships right across the board !

I know because I am, and I do !

If you consider yourself a good person ( this to us all ), Then why would you let anyone hurt you ( and we are always talking about feelings here ) in any way shape or form. ?

Life is give and take. And what you give out, you should accept back. And nothing else will do.!

And thank you so much to everyone taking the time to stop by. : ]

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attemptedhumour Level 5 Commenter 18 months ago

You've suddenly inherited about ten million possible friends, but these you can delete from your life with a touch of a button. Your hub was a bit ram-shackled but in a really nice way. Cheers

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debbiesdailyviews Hub Author 18 months ago

Hahahaha what a great word ramshackled..

You just know I'm going to Hub it.

Thank you for your honest accounts. You make me feel I'm doing Ok, as otherwise you would tell me the truth.

I very much appreciate this.

Thank you again for your support.

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